Why Do We Dance?
Why do we dance? We dance because it’s the fastest, most direct route to the truth—not some big truth that belongs to everybody, but the get-down-and-personal kind; the what’s-happening-in-me-right-now kind of truth. This is not always easy for us to access—we have to navigate some very deep past, as well as the probable futures we drum up to feed the fear that drives us around the same circles, day in and day out. We dance to hook up to the true genius lurking behind all that bullshit—to seek refuge in our originality and our power to reinvent ourselves; to shed the past, forget the future, and fall into the moment feet first. Do you remember being fifteen, possessed by the beat, by the thrill of music pumping loud enough to drown out everything you’d ever known? Of course you do.
We dance to reclaim our brilliant ability to disappear in something bigger, something safe, a space without a critic or a judge or an analyst. The beat is a lover that never disappoints and, like all lovers, it demands 100% surrender. It has the power to seduce moves we couldn’t dream. It grabs us by the belly, turns us inside out and leaves us abruptly begging for more. The beat is bad, wicked, sick—whatever the word is now.
We dance to fall in love with the spirit in all things, to wipe out memory or transform it into moves that nobody else can make because they didn’t live it. It’s a sacred thing, the beat. We love beats that move faster than we can think, beats that drive us ever deeper inside, that rock our worlds, break down walls and make us sweat our prayers.
We dance to survive, and the beat offers a yellow brick road to make it through the chaos that is the tempo of our times. Chaos is the way of the mind when it is freestyling, winding its way back to an instinctive, intuitive intelligence, the kind we need to survive—not only the real shit going down, but the massive amount of stuff we insist on making up to ensure our suffering. God provides and god don’t need no help. God is the dance, the dance is the way to freedom, and freedom is our holy work.
So get down and find out what your hands, your shoulders, your elbows, knees and, most importantly, your hips and feet have to say about it. Close the door, pull down the shades, pick out a passionate piece of music, and turn it up real loud. Now, lie down on the floor and let your body become a speaker. Listen to the music with your whole body. Listen with your head, your shoulders, your elbows, your hands, your spine, your belly, your thighs, your knees, your calves, your feet. Let the music pass through you. Feel the vibration of the music in each part of you. Which part feels the bass, the treble? What instrument tugs at your heart, your hips?
Play it again. This time, move your body—dance with this new awareness of the music.
There is a dance only you can do, that exists only in you, here and now, always changing, always true. Are you willing to listen with fascination? If you are, it will deliver you unto the self you have always dreamed you could be. This is a promise.
Gabrielle Roth, world-renowned theater director, movement innovator, and recording artist, is the best-selling author of MAPS TO ECSTASY, SWEAT YOUR PRAYERS, and CONNECTIONS. For more than 30 years, she has worked to heal the deadening split between spirit and flesh though her own form of ecstatic dance, the 5Rhythms®.
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Totally agree! Went to a wedding and i danced for 4 hours, people going would dance a few minutes..One gye stopped and told me ‘you are having the most fun’…lol..then i told him that i don’t do drugs or alcohol…good times..thanks for sharing..
This article is superb and came to me at a very important time in my life! It is so true, and so vindicating to read it. I have always felt this way on some level but until recently had limiting beliefs that stopped me from experiencing the worth of dance. Thank you for writing this article!
I dance because I want to feel my freedom. It doesn’t mean that I have no freedom if no dance but I am more liberating when dancing. It is where I can express my true feelings. Women’s Health Questions
I love dancing :)
I left dancing for far too long, allowing the demons of depression to rule me rather than the passion of my purpose.
Thankfully, a single song at a wedding, following the too-soon death of a friend who never fully embraced his life, propelled me back on this path that is walked with our heart in our feet.
At the age of 40, I returned to dance and now I am timeless, ageless, and free. My life has been transformed in under a year on both the inside and the out.
Gabrielle’s work has been part of my new life and I cannot say thank you enough.
thanks for your sharing !!!!!
George Bernard Shaw once said that dancing was the vertical of what people would like to do horizontally….. Any thoughts?
Wow. Thank you.
God, this touched me deeply. I’m a slave to the rhythm!!!
I only wished I danced a little more, but you know what? I’m going to start right NOW!
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Great article.
I wish I know what it feels like to dance the night and the sorrows away! Truth is I’ve never been someone who knows how to dance or move to the rhytmn.My selfconscious mind is always the one that “blocks” my body and myself.
July 19, 2010