By Daphne Oz on February 12, 2010

Making Healthy Choices at School

When I was growing up, I was very fortunate to be surrounded by health advocates: my dad is a cardiac surgeon; my mother is a reiki master and aficionado of holistic and homeopathic medicine. As such, I was uniquely exposed to the nexus of Eastern and Western medicine, and our dinner table chats covered everything from the latest advancement in robotic surgery to the newest research in Co-Q10 therapies. And yet, I was a good 25-40 pounds overweight for most of my youth.

A clear example of knowledge without practice, I struggled to put all my parents’ valuable information to use because their tips on nutrition and exercise simply didn’t fit into my lifestyle. I was a high school student who had difficulty finding healthy foods on campus, and I had even more difficulty exercising moderation when I came home to a stunning array of healthful foods in delicious preparations (my mother is an enviable cook and managed to make even the blandest, ‘90s-era tofu taste divine).

It wasn’t for lack of interest or effort on my part either, either. I really enjoyed learning all I could about nutrition and alternative remedies, and I played three sports throughout high school. Compared to my friends, I thought I did a good job choosing mostly healthy foods. But the scale is indifferent to calorie source; it cares only about whether you use more than you consume, and I did not.

The problem was that the more I obsessed over how heavy I was, the heavier I became. By age 17, I had reached 175 pounds. On my 5’8” frame, this verged on obesity. From a medical standpoint, my dad knew how dangerous carrying so much extra weight could be, especially with the strain I put on my heart and joints by playing active sports. Both of my parents urged me to find a way to really live healthfully, and I attempted all manner of fad diets—no fat, lots of carbs; no carbs, lots of protein; no protein, lots of veggies—and none of them did any good. These diets are constructed with middle-aged women in mind, people with full kitchens and time to cook, not teenagers looking to lose weight. Even more problematic were the unforgiving eating guidelines, which sent even the most diligent dieters running for a box of “Ho-Ho’s” before too long. Inevitably, we find ourselves gaining back any weight that was lost, and then some.

In the end, I realized that deprivation was neither a good approach for myself nor, truthfully, anyone actually trying to lose weight (sadists are another issue altogether). It especially was not going to work for someone preparing to leave for college and looking to regain health while losing weight. I knew that starting college would mark the onset of my adult life, and I wanted to allow myself to live it to the fullest. I had already experienced so many setbacks due to being overweight: I had felt unnecessarily self-conscious for years, I had kept myself from trying new things, I had made the varsity sport teams only to be benched for the season because I didn’t have the endurance to play. I wanted to experience college, and the adult life that ensued, as my optimal self. Only once I had this inspiration and motivation could I pair it with the information I’d had since birth and effect the transformation I wanted to see.

I made the commitment to adopt a realistic, healthy lifestyle. This meant finding ways to take food off center stage—it wasn’t going to be the focal point of my life anymore, and fad diets were ruled out. Instead, I concerned myself with experiencing all that college had to offer. I aimed to “live consciously,” meaning I would avoid mindless grazing, and I also refused to feel deprived. With this new commitment to permanent lifestyle change, I lost ten pounds over the remaining six months of my senior year in high school. I lost another ten pounds during my first semester in college simply by remembering to be aware of what I put into my body.

So began the journey that would eventually lead me to publish “The Dorm Room Diet,” a manual I wrote during my freshman year at college wherein I documented all the tips and tricks I developed to establish healthy habits while living away from home, without ever feeling like I was missing out on anything.

The most important motto I continue to live by is this: “Substitution where you can, moderation where you can’t.” This means that if you are happy having an apple instead of a brownie, that’s a great way to cut back on processed sugars and simple carbohydrates on a regular basis. But if you’re at a friend’s birthday party, go ahead and celebrate with a piece of cake, or half a piece, or even a bite. Don’t deny yourself a crucial element of an experience that food provides. It is necessary to feel in control, and when something is off limits, the allure of the taboo makes it much more powerful than it ought to be. When the priority is health and establishing long-term lifestyle change, rather than a short-term quick fix, the pressure is off, and the success is on!

Here are some tips I developed to stay on track while enjoying everything I wanted to experience as I began my adult life.

1. Nothing is off-limits. Especially in college, the abundance of food (from buffet-style dining halls to late-night pizza runs to free-flowing booze) can be overwhelming. Remember that these are always available, and you will therefore have ample opportunity to indulge—and you should! But it also teaches a valuable lesson: if you pass up a grilled cheese or apple pie slice tonight, chances are it will appear again soon. The biggest thing is to remember that you can have it whenever you want, so there’s no urgency to gobble it all up while it’s in front of you. If you learn how to enjoy in moderation, you will never feel deprived. (This is a trick that definitely applies post-graduation!)

2. Always plan ahead. I identified five major danger zones specific to college campuses where it is tempting to unconsciously eat poorly. (Many of these are also relevant to finding a work-life balance). The FIVE DANGER ZONES are: studying, parties and campus gatherings, watching TV with friends, tailgating, and late-night chats. In each of these scenarios, it’s very easy to eat without thinking about it—how often do you reach into the nearest bag of crunchy snacks while catching the latest episode of “24?”—and the foods on hand are, more often than not, over-processed, pre-packaged junk. If you take a few moments to plan ahead—eat an apple before heading to a party so you’re not starving, keep a glass of water in your hands at all times, put aside a portion you’re comfortable eating of whatever your favorite tv-watching nosh might be and stick to that—you’ll spare yourself the torture and temptation.

3. Live consciously. Again, this is something that I started to develop as a college student, but it’s worth learning and applying at any stage in life. Figuring out how to put the joy and pleasure back into eating so that you can savor the many tastes and indulge (in moderation) in the things that you love is crucial to establishing a healthy lifestyle that lasts. Michael Pollan, in his book “In Defense of Food,” spoke about the “perfunctory” nature of American eating, attributing this development to the outright abundance of food in the United States and our collective removal from its production. In places where food and cultural appreciation are still inextricably linked, eating is a much-anticipated activity: meals are slower, food is chewed over, enjoyment is essential. If you can find ways to work these simple pleasures into your daily life—that’s not to say you need to prepare massive feasts from scratch everyday; even your boxed salad can serve as something to linger over and savor—you’ll be well on your way to ending the tyranny of food in your life.

4. Take action. It is important to become involved in what food is available so that you have the essential access to make healthful decisions every day. I grew up purely vegetarian, and though I did reincorporate a small amount of meat into my diet, it was crucial for me to find ways to have protein without resorting to the “mystery meat” served at the cafeteria. In high school, I managed to work closely with cafeteria staff and school administration to implement a whole slew of new health initiatives, including student-submitted vegetarian recipes, daily salad and soup bar options, and Odwalla juice to replace soda on campus. This kind of change could take place on a much larger scale on college campuses—and I am a major proponent of universities harnessing their purchasing power and their role as educators to blaze a trail towards healthy stewardship in America. But for those not looking to go head-to-head with the university president, here are a couple smaller-scale options:

a. Consult your cafeteria staff. Often, there are things in the fridge that they do not make available because they are unaware that anyone wants it. Make a point of voicing any allergies or specific food needs to the head chef or purchaser for your cafeteria, and more often than not, they will find a way to accommodate your needs.

b. See whether you can establish a farm-to-school program. This is a trend that is sweeping the nation, as more and more schools invest in purchasing a portion or majority of their cafeteria supplies from local producers. It saves on transportation costs, and the result is fresher, more wholesome food for everyone!

c. Food shop and pilfer. Once a week, I borrowed a friend’s car and ran to the local grocery store near my college. We were fortunate to have an independent health food store very near campus, and I would buy my main foodstuffs and snacks there, supplementing with salad items, whole grains, and cereals from the cafeteria.

d. Start a farmer’s market. While I was in college, one of my best friends established the first farmer’s market run fully by students. It came to campus every Tuesday and flooded the commons with fruits and vegetables, local dairy products, fresh bakery bread, and a slew of other delicious goodies. Depending on where you live, the local farmers and food producers are generally thrilled to partner with the surrounding community, both to gain exposure and sell their products directly.

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