Two Magic Words: Start Again

I am happy to report that I have now gotten over my recent attack of the blahs. The blahs are different than the blues. The blues are sad, weepy, ready to question every life decision you’ve ever made and craving baked goods. The blahs are less dramatic. They’re what happens when the only thing you can get excited about doing is nothing. I find they often follow an insanely busy period – once you’ve finished up all those pressing deadlines, there’s no oomph left. And you’ve forgotten how to motivate yourself without some dramatic timeframe. And suddenly the couch and the remote control start looking really good.
At first I decided to indulge my lethargy and spent a lot of time lying around, watching TV, flipping through magazines, and catching up on phone calls. The problem is, my little indulgence turned into a way of life. I was barely doing yoga and only rarely getting outside for walks (it was cold and gray, which I’m sure had something to do with my apathetic state in the first place). I took me about two weeks before I realized I was miserable. My blahs were starting to morph into the blues. And that’s not the direction we want the needle to move.
So I turned to a tactic I learned from meditation. When you’re meditating and focusing your attention on something other than your thoughts—whether by counting your breaths or repeating a meaningful phrase or just listening to your breath as it flows in and out– you will inevitably start daydreaming or thinking about the itch that’s developing on your inner ankle or any number of mental dramas. It’s a natural and expected part of the meditation process. And what you’re supposed to do when you realize you’ve veered off course isn’t to berate yourself. Or wonder why you can’t pay attention. Or give up. No. Your most powerful tactic is to let go of all the lamenting and the blaming and the analyzing and just go back to following your breath. That’s it. Just. Start. Again. No drama. No regrets.
So that’s what I did. I started getting out for a morning walk. I started prioritizing yoga class again. I stopped zoning out in front of the tube. And it worked like a freaking charm. After a few days I was back in my groove, where life isn’t necessarily glorious every minute of every day, but it’s perfect just as it is.
So here’s my message to you: When you find yourself veered off on some course that’s got you feeling blah-y, or blues-y, or whatever your particular funk may be, just start your self-care routine again. All the work you’ve put in to whatever your particular practice may be is waiting for you—even though you may feel like you’re starting from scratch, the cumulative benefits of your previous self-care will rise up to meet you as soon as you take you first step. If you’ve gotten sucked up in to a summer doldrums, consider this your invitation to get back on track. The sooner you do, the sooner you’ll be feel more like yourself.
12 Comments
It’s like you plucked this from my mind today. Thanks for the reminder of my own power, and a gentle kick in the rear.
Thanks for that. I have had the blahs for a while now and i find some days are impossible. hope yours was a great one!
Thank you! That’s exactly what I needed to hear this morning.
I am so glad it’s speaking to you! I know I need to follow this advice myself again and again and again. It’s about the journey, not the destination, right?
I can’t thank you enough or posting this today…just the gentle reminder I needed and your timing is perfect!
Refreshing…Pura Vida!
Girlfriend, you summed up ‘xactly how I was feeling! And, I needed to be reminded to just let the frustration go and begin again.
Thank you!
Wow just when I needed it. I was doing so well. Then my routine got messed up in the process of a move. I fell off the path so hard that getting back on it seemed like more work then staying off of it. So I sat for a month with the Blahs. Blahs that led to gaining 12 pounds and feeling more blah because of it. Timing is everything, I was just telling myself that I will either have to get a shovel and start digging or grab a hold of something and get back on my path that was so right for me. Thanks for saying what I already knew. knowing others get the Blahs and come out of it is reassuring and gave me the nudge I need. I will start again.
Awesome! I have been feeling guilty and a bit frustrated that I can’t seem to find my groove again after my cance diagnosis. I feel like I have PTSD!! My head wants to “get back out there” and exercise, but my body says “nahhhh!” It’s a daily struggle for me.
Thanks Kate!
Perfect timing! After a long weekend of “not so fantastic” food choices I’m feeling a bit of the blah’s myself. Thanks for the pick me up!


















some great advice! especially when canada’s grey winters get to ya!
September 2, 2009