New Year’s Resolutions: 10 for ‘10

Kris Carr

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Holy Glitter – we made it through another decade! For me, it was the decade of diagnosis, rock bottom, a creative explosion, empowerment, marriage, the loss of cherished family members, the addition of Lola (the best rescue dog ever!), physical and emotional healing and a loving Crazy Sexy global community. So many lessons learned, so much gratitude felt. And yet I’m just getting started! That’s a fantastic and spooky feeling. Can you be a grown up while still growing up? I sure hope so.

With oodles of thoughts swirling through my head, it’s a perfect time to scribble some resolutions: 10 for 10 – I hope you join me. Yearly goals help set our inner coordinates so that we can sail into the warm sunshine.

Take some time and reflect on where you are, where you’re going and where you missed the mark in the past. Then grab a pen (and a bikini) and swan dive in.

Here goes…1-2-3…SPLASH!

1. Take a yearly honeymoon and do not talk about work.

2. Take a yearly trip with friends (no spouses allowed).

3. Meditate for 20 minutes in the morning and 20 minutes in the evening. If it’s good enough for the Beatles, it’s good enough for me!

4. Take guitar lessons and sing Neil Young songs.

5. Exercise please. The ass won’t take care of itself.

6. Therapy please. The head won’t take care of itself.

7. Watch more good films and less bad TV.

8. Start a manifestation posse, share secrets dreams and be held accountable.

9. Take a break from nutrition books and read delicious literature

10. Listen more; talk less and forgive, forgive, let go, forgive.

…Bonus resolution: Toss fear and smile. Money, health, career, love – they’re all there for the taking, but only if my hands are wide open. Fists suck!

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There, that seems pretty doable. I often shoot too high and then splat. Can you really be an astronaut, the best chef ever, save every animal and solve global warming in 12 months? Oh, and have Madonna arms too? Maybe if I’m more realistic I’ll find a deeper happiness in the simple things. If I have extra energy, I’ll win an Emmy. If not: Fuck it.

Hmmm, I like this list a lot. In fact, I’m gonna keep it handy and check in with you from time to time. Buddies certainly help keep things on track.

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One last thought before I close up shop for ‘09…

Go for it – don’t wait or procrastinate! And above all, don’t tofu chicken out! Life is moving at a fast clip…are you living it? Am I? Some of my nooks and crannies are still very junked up with stuff that holds me back. If you feel the same way then let’s do a little spring cleaning in January. That’s right, grab some Mrs. Meyer’s lavender scrub and get crazy sexy busy! I’ll bring the rags, you bring the tissues, the universe will bring the freedom.

Many blessings for an abundant and healthy New Year!
Kris

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39 Comments

  1. Tina, December 31, 2009:

    Yea! More zen in 2010. More hammock, less holding back. Thanks for the kick in the but.

  2. sg, December 31, 2009:

    Thanks for the inspiration! Love the blog. Happy new year.

  3. terri cole, December 31, 2009:

    hey mama-
    yes yes yes is what i say to all of the above. how lucky are we that every year we have a chance to figure or re figure it out? our group MANIFESTING MANIACS on the forum, is sharing their 3 lists for the new year so i invite eveyone to make their way over and get it in writing with a witness or 215!!
    list one:SHIT YOU ARE LEAVING IN ‘09
    list two:GEMS YOU ARE KEEPING FROM ‘09
    list three:WHAT YOU ARE CREATING IN 2010!!
    be brave and sail into 2010 with gratitude and pure potential on your mind and in your heart!!!
    love love love
    your crazy sexy life coach,
    terri

  4. Glenda, December 31, 2009:

    I love it! Just the push I needed. I just lost my job and am looking at starting a biz. Thanks. It’s great to hear from you Kris!

  5. debbbiedoesraw, December 31, 2009:

    Kris, this is just the message I needed this New Years Eve! Love you and man I want a hammock too!
    xooxo deb

  6. Corinne, December 31, 2009:

    As always, your words are super inspiring! I wrote my own list this morning after reading your blog:) What a great way to start the day! Thanks for being you! xoxo

  7. Sandra Joseph, December 31, 2009:

    Love you so, Kris Carr. Thanks for this. I miss your voice on this blog. Talk to us more often, sistah. xoxo…

  8. Lauren, December 31, 2009:

    Happy New Year, dear Kris!!! I am so excited that within the first couple of weeks of 2010 I am going to meeting you!! And Corinne AND Michelle!!! Wow, how lucky am I? :) Love your resolutions, Neil Young is my fav. would be awesome to learn to play some of his music! For now I will sing “Old Man” as loud as possible! ;) Have a wonderful New Year, many blessings and love!

  9. Ricki, December 31, 2009:

    Same to you, Kris. You continue to inspire every day! Have a very happy, healthy 2010 filled with all good things. (And I love #6 the best!) ‘)

  10. Maria (Tough Cookie), December 31, 2009:

    Thank you so much for blogging, and your pictures are too cute! You are such a beauty, inside and out. We love hearing from you xoxo Have a safe, healthy, happy, and blessed 2010 xoxo

  11. REO, December 31, 2009:

    Kris, YOU have enriched my life beyond words! Love YOU for the Angel that YOU are! :)

  12. callie, December 31, 2009:

    Hey Sweet One, It is were wonderful to see you here. You have had a huge year. I know what you mean about the splat but you got a lot more flying wins and we are all so proud of you. I wish that you manifest all the wishes on your list. I am in the middle of a huge meditation cleanse that allows me to clear my mind and focus on the next year and the five year plan.. I needed a break and a good plan. I cannot tell you how each night we remember you in our prayers or how there are so many dreams I pray for you.. and with you. I hope that with all the good and blessed life and living you have shared that abundance comes to you from every nook and cranny. Much love and the very best of all for 2010… Kris as the new Oprah.. I vote yes.. Emmy damn straight.. Can she do it.. yes she can.. She and Brian can move the world. I am adding your honeymoon without work talk on the beach for my list great idea.. When you live and love in the same place it can get dicey. Blessings and Love. Callie

    ps. Deb rocked the blog yesterday didnt she.. go deb..

  13. Secundra Beasley, December 31, 2009:

    1. Stop reading astrology and numerology articles.

    2. Continue to pratice my juggling 5 days a week for 5 minutes.

    3. Break down studying for my driver’s license text into a month by month activity.

    4. Run a 5k

    5. Complete the Shaolin workout.

    6. Give one hour everyday to qi gong.

    7. See a movie every month

    8. Make a “bucket list”

    9. Find my inner rock girl and listen to more rock music.

    10. Have a computer free day one day each week.

    Happy New Year to everyone at CCrazy Sexy Life.

  14. Christine Newman, January 1, 2010:

    Just saw your film. Just what I needed on NY Eve 2010. Just got my diagnosis of early-onset Parkinson’s. But I have too much life left to live. Seeing your story makes me feel less lost in this journey. Hugs to you, Kris!

  15. Ameena, January 1, 2010:

    Your site is so inspirational…just found it but I will visit often.

    I love your list as well!

  16. Lauren, January 1, 2010:

    Love your list! Manifestation is something I’ve been working on lately and I want to kick it up in ‘10!!
    xoxoxo kris and everyone here!
    shout out to Deb, Callie, Corrine, and SJ!;)

  17. debbbiedoesraw, January 1, 2010:

    thanks for the shout out Callie! I miss our old blog days, but 2010 is full of promise!
    love love love
    deb

  18. Oya, January 1, 2010:

    I came hear for inspiration and i found it~thank you so for your aprapo,
    Love and hugs,
    Oya

  19. rainbow, January 1, 2010:

    Happy 2010 Kris!
    Love you to pieces and thankful for you every single day of the year. I hope that 2010 is as amazing as YOU are and everything you wish for will come true and much much more…. you deserve it all!

  20. Mia, January 1, 2010:

    Aloha Kris!
    What a fantastic list! I am working on mine now :) I just had to say thank you.. Thank you for your amazing, fun-loving and beautifully free spirit.. CSL is a haven for so many of us, you can’t imagine… so thank you again! Looking forward to you, Brian, Lola and the CSL team rock another year! 2010 better be ready for ya ;) Sending you lots of love from South Florida.. Namaste, Mia

  21. Erikka, January 2, 2010:

    I love your list of resolutions. Im going to come up with my own. Thanks for the inspiration.

  22. thedailycrazy, January 2, 2010:

    Delicious is the way to go. Don’t deny yourself, go crazy :)

  23. thedailycrazy, January 2, 2010:

    Delicious is the way to go. Don’t deny yourself, go crazy!

  24. Organic Zuzu, January 2, 2010:

    I love singing Neil Young songs. His harvest Moon CD is one of my main stay soothers. Happy New Decade OZ xox

  25. Rosie, January 2, 2010:

    Is that a Costa Rica guidebook in your photo? I have decided to travel lusciously this year – and leaving for Rincon in 3 weeks – thousands of blessings to you from the four corners – love you Chris!!

  26. Rosie, January 2, 2010:

    Oops- sorry I spelled your name wrong – a bit dyslexic….

  27. Harmonicgogiberry, January 2, 2010:

    Just began the 21 day vegan challenge and fell in love with your site from there. Thank you for the inspiration! First heard of you when Marianne Williamson introduced you at her Miraculous Living weekend in NYC in November and now I’ve found you again! So glad! You rock!

  28. Nicole, January 3, 2010:

    LOVED this. Thank you for sharing = )

  29. skippy, January 3, 2010:

    ‘In the field of opportunity it’s plowing time again’

  30. Darren King, January 3, 2010:

    I can tell you’re serious about #4 because that is a G-chord you’re holding there! Awesome. Good luck! Best, Darren

  31. Gabrielle Bernstein, January 5, 2010:

    kris – you rule.
    you are my hero.
    xo
    g

  32. Michelle Peters, January 5, 2010:

    Dear Girl, I loved reading your list and share some of your goals (learning to play the guitar I bought FOUR YEARS ago, for example:) Keep shining that light, love. Can’t wait to see all the blessings 2010 brings. Im so grateful for having met you, Lauren, Corinne, Val and all the other CSL peeps! xo, M

  33. Mary, January 7, 2010:

    I love that you have time to blog a bit again! I have missed you and your inspiring thoughtful words. Here’s to a great 2010!! Wishing you all the best!

  34. Cuz, January 8, 2010:

    Dude,
    The best resolutions ever…my biggie is to read and I am flyig through and loving every minute. Miss you madly – wheatgerm shot in NYC soon?

  35. Tanessa Noll, January 8, 2010:

    Might need to add hammock to my resolutions. Inspiring post and comments. Happy New Year, ya’ll!

  36. Eco Mama, January 8, 2010:

    Great list! Hope 2010 is everything your heart desires. You are fabulous.
    xo
    Eco Mama

  37. diane, January 9, 2010:

    You’re a good egg girl, we’re here with you in heart & spirit. You keep living to the fullest. God speed now & forever. Happy New Years

  38. Yali, January 9, 2010:

    ME ENCANTA, GRACIAS BELLA!

  39. Marcus @ Juice Feasting PDX, April 13, 2010:

    How are the resolutions going? :)

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